Its in the basic nature of human to like what he does, he achieves, his ideology. He may not want to bring this attraction out in open but the subconscience is an egotist, it loves what it produces, what is his. A man is always in love with his own traits hence himself, no man survives long if he cannot love himself, he perishes and hence we see suicides being commited. A man may or may not be intellectually strong to know the true cause of it, the pressure of society to be what societ wants it to be rather than being its true self.
Love, thus is the highest act of display of selfishness. Love is not superficial, its deep seated for its not your conscience that loves its your subconscience, the sole reason a to why love can only be felt and can not be reasoned and why you dont get a choice over whome you fell in love with.
Subconscience as said above is an egotist to the core without any pretentions it choses what is its own or if we go a step forward what is similar to its own. Love aint shallow its beyond cast, creed, colour just because a subconscience doesnt love the skin or the conscience (heart) for that matter which is a major misconception, it loves only its counterpart the person's subconscience. The chosen subconscience is loved only because it displays self traits. So we see greater the common characterstics of the subconscience rather than the pretentious or the presentable conscience faster is the bond of love. No selflessman can fall in love, no man who dislikes his entity can love. The failure to love is the failure to recognize self.
It is said that "opposites attract", I denounce this statement with the reason, if the saying is to be true and people trully diversified at their core are attracted then their ego's demand different things, no common answer is possible, hence one of two things can happen firstly either of them makes a compromise breaking his/her self bringing uunhappiness to life or secondly clash of ego's occur. In bot the cases the two people are not comaptible to each other which is in direct contradiction to the well believed saying.
In the ingoing phase of world we witness greater no. of suicides, failed marriages the reason? Loving self is termed as an evil rather than a virtue, rather than knowing it exists, rather than ackowledging the fact its deeprooted, its natural. Selflessness is preached on pretext it brings happiness which on the contrary doe quite the opposite cause it brings self hatred for the soul reason that it hinders or abstains one from achievment as an achievmennt is avhieved only by self not by some one else for someone else. A person starts feeling small which is helped by the social beliefs till the point ego breaks and subconscience dies, fades away as it was never there this is when conscience takes over a realm it cannot rule, control the conscience affected by society comes to hate the man from within and the body breaks resulting in an increase of the suicide count.
People fail to realize their true self because of the pretentions imposed not by the society but by self. The new genrations lies in the mid of the two worlds, the worst state for neither do they want to compromise no do they want to face the truth of selflessness, of self, of the true nature of love. Knots are tied between people of varied ego's, decisions tend to be compromised, frustations creep in as rust to the machinery which slows and finally the system breaks down.
The escape routes are simple and two, one to lose your ego and compromise. With no ego there is no interest of yours, no achievment of oyurs, no dreams of yours, no progress everything lies in a stalemate, this system cannot break down until someday the person who's ego is hurt turns a rebel someday because the machines aint moving or secondly you must first identify your true self, not your conscience but your subconscience, deal with it, fall in love with it no matter how hideous it looks to the society, its still you, dont compromise to change it and hurt it just for the sake of people around you hwo dont know their true self, for one who truelly knows self will never point fingers at you. Now that you know your true nature, your subconscience is free of pretentions, you know what to look out for, you bump into a similar ego that is comppatible with you, your subconscience grows fond of it, this is what is called love. But its not given that the other person may like you the reasons can be several, the person lives under the burden of pretentions the society desires and imposes on weak ego's or the person likes the trait common with you less then some trait common with someone else.
This is the true nature of love as it exists in this mortal world.
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