ARE WE WORTHY OF LOVE?

Every relation that a human makes on this earth is a buisness deal, you give something of your own, you take something you want. Love is no different it is also a kind ofa buisness deal with a different currency here what at stake is the man's virtue, the strength of his will.
A man is said to be weak not when he lacks physical strength but when he lacks strength of character. A man who bends his wishes owing to the needs and requirments of others not his own is weak, a man wh osees his ownself smaller than others is weak, man who claims to love someone more than himself is weak, a man who places wishes of others or specific 'other' over his own is weak. Such a man doesnt holds the right to be loved, if a man is immoral to himself how can he be expected to be moral to someone else??? man who has'nt lernt to say "i" or havent learnt to distinguish himself from the collective we, from the crowd has now right to be loved or even live.
This man is nothing but a parasite for others who are contradictory to him in person. This man feels angered over comments by others, grows happy over praise, compliments from others, laughs when they laugh, cry when asked to cry, the man lacks self emotions he lacks an ego. This man lacks a recognition he cannot standalone, he cannot be defined alone, so hw is he expeced to define someone else.
Lets look inside us now, are we worthy of love?.. Does other's comments and compliments mean to us more than our own? Can we define ourselves alone, can we survive if left alne? Are we complete in ourselves? Do we seek self in others? Do we hold othrs choice above ours? Do we hold others opinion greater than ours? If yes then are we really worthy of love???